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You've lost so much!  Please continue to do your best to remember your mother in these ways. You don't want to forget what a wonderful person she truly is.   I know that after my dad's brain surgery, there were medication reactions, and it was very hard to track them down, since he couldn't accurately report how he felt. Were her medicatons taken away abruptly, instead of weaning her? That can make a difference. But her body is changing, too, so it's going to be hard to know meds work best. It will be a guessing game. It always is.   How sad that she remembers being "bad." That must break your heart. Hang in. YOu sound like such a loving, compassionate daughter. This is a tough road for you. Keep the medical people informed as best you can. Carol