My oldest sister who is a RN is in denial, other siblings live very far away. I'm the only one to help. She asks the same questions over and over in the same sitting. After about the 8th time I just tell her she's already asked that question but then she gets upset with me. She lives alone. Fortunately with an electric stove and not gas. I think my oldest sibling is just waiting for something severe to happen before she'll step in. We are not a close family and "talking" was something that was never done so to approach her about this would be very difficult. She's in denial that she's forgetful so how do I even find out who her physician is? Can I contact her physician about my concerns? Will they do anything? HELP! Marianne ( I also just started working full time after being a stay-at-home mom for 10 years and I have 3 kids plus a husband to take care of) We couldn't have her move in with us. I think it's best now to let her live where she is because she knows how to get back home?