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For starters I would like to commend you for being so proactive in your parents' care. It is so important for individuals with dementia to be tracked during their progression, as different needs and demands can surface with time. Although I suspect you know your parents well and can sense changes in their health status, I advise you to consult with a physician and a social worker before proceeding with your plans. First, it is important to discuss your mother's sleeping habits with her physician to see what might be causing this. A consultation with a medical professional can help guide you in your decision making process regarding transferring them, and point out issues that you may not have been aware of. If you decide to transfer them to a memory unit, it is also a good idea to consult with the medical professionals there so that they can have a sense of your parents' individual needs prior to entry. This can also promote a smoother transition. You might also want to research nursing facilities with Alzheimer's units for future care. It is not always easy to find a unit that you feel comfortable with, and that have available beds, so it is a good idea to plan in advance and tour facilities well before the time comes. It can be helpful to come up with a list of 5 or so facilities that you prefer, and when the time is right, ask about available admission or have their names added to a waiting list.