The facility director’s concern about the rodeo being”too much” may be justified.  It is important to discuss this further with the staff, and it may be beneficial to involve the physician who oversees your dad's care. 

Although your father used to enjoy the rodeo, sometimes even familiar activities can prompt an unpredictable response for individuals with Alzheimer’s disease.  It is possible that your father could become “over stimulated” at the rodeo and that the environment could be very anxiety provoking.  Due to the fact that your father is already asking you about riding, it is possible that he will press this point when at the rodeo and he may not be able to take no for an answer.  You mentioned that the facility was willing to give you Seroquel in case he becomes agitated; however, this may be of concern.  Medications designed for behaviors do not always take effect immediately and may present an even more intense situation.  You should discuss this medication with your father's physician before administering. 

It is understandable that you want your father to have a good time and enjoy a favorite pastime, but you may be taking a risk.  Aside from the potential agitation and anxiety, there should be concern for his safety; for example, there is the risk for falling.  If this event takes place in a setting such as a stadium, he may be required to climb stairs which could pose safety risks. Going to the doctor’s office or grocery store is a completely different experience and environment rather than a sporting event.  It may be a difficult decision, but unfortunately there are so many factors to consider that could be dangerous.  In the meantime, it may be possible to show him a video or book related to the rodeo, which could turn out to be very effective for him therapeutically.

Good morning!

I think the previous two answers really cover some of your questions, but I want to add one more situation that you need to think about before you go to the rodeo - getting your father to a bathroom. He may not be able to navigate using an unfamiliar restroom alone at this point, so you may want to think through how you'll handle this situation in advance. Will you have a male member of your family who will accompany him in and out of a restroom? Or does the rodeo arena have a handicapped facility that provides a single restroom that your father can use (and you can be available to assist him, if needed).

Also, will someone be available to stay with him if you have to run to the restroom or to the concession stand? Having a tag team of family members and/or friends may be needed to make an outing manageable.

Take care and keep us posted!

Dorian