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Thanks for sharing with me. He is on aricept has been for several months. It made a big difference. He is also on seroquel since February. The only change is the BP meds. AND my brother talking to him about money and being mean spirited. I really think that is the root of all of this. However, Kasier really hasn't done a through job of diagnosing him. They pretty much through him away for us to handle the bill after the surgery. Today was tough at the guardianship hearing. Everything was fine, just seemed so "final" that he is now mine to handle alone. He trusts me so that is good. I just hope we make it through the summer with him still knowing me. He wanted me to spend the night tonight which I often do,but I really wanted a beer and his room was so darn hot. He has AC he just likes it hot. I knew I would not get any sleep so I came home. I told him he has to come stay with me at the lake before Iwill spend the night at his "condo" again, he said that seems fair enough. He is very paranoid about his place now that he has things of his own there. I told him we would lock the door and if they new he wasn't there theywouldn't come in to change the towels, etc. It has been a very long road to here from 1/14 the day of surgery.Now I get to write the care plan etc for the court. Again thanks.