My mom is in the early stages of diagnosed Alzheimer's. Off an on she has been talking to her sister's widow and everytime they talk she talks to me about moving (6 hours away) and marrying him. It got worse this last week. I convinced her to have him come down for a week so they could actually date and be around each other for a solid 24 hours. She keeps saying he's a nice man and he is, but she's never seen him for an extended period of time, just glimpses into her sister's marriage (they were married about 13 years). Well mother's day came and we had a great time and talked and she decided she didn't want to move up there and that she didn't know what she was thinking. Then last night her truck broke down. Cost way more money than she had to fix. She called him and he offered to wire her money. Now of course she's talking about moving back up there. This would entail her selling her house (not paid for) and moving 6 hours away to live with a man she's ever been around for a solid 24 hours. I am totally against this. I don't know what to do. I want to lock her up so she can't leave. I'm a total loss and completely stressed out. Stressing my marriage which is already stressed (we lost both of my in-laws in our first year of marriage and this is just year 2) I don't know what to do. She's not bad enough to be in a home, still gets out and about, keeps her house up, drives in town. ideas?