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  • KATHY January 27, 2009
    KATHY
    January 27, 2009

    GOOD MORNING.

     I TAKE CARE OF A 86 YR.OLD LADY.WHAT A SWEETHEART.WE HAD HOSPICE COME IN AND THEY CAME FULLY EQUIPPED WITH MORPHINE AND LORAZAPAM. GIVE AS NEEDED.I WAS TOLD 2 DROPS. THE FIRST TIME I HAD GIVEN THE MORPHINE WAS 2 DROPS AND IT DID EASE HER PAIN. THE SECOND TIME I GAVE IT TO HER THEY HAD INCREASED IT TO 3 DROPS. I DID NOT LIKE THE SIDE EFFECTS. SHE SLEPT ALL DAY WHICH MEANT SHE WAS NOT EATING AND COMING OUT OF IT THE NEXT DAY WAS NOT EASY ON HER.I DO NOT LIKE IT,I FEEL IT WOULD SLOWLY KILL HER IF I CONTINUED TO GIVE HER THEIR RECOMMENDED DOSAGE.IF I MUST GIVE IE TO HER IT WILL ONLY BE 2 DROPS. AND I WILL ONLY GIVE IF SHE IS SCREAMING IN PAIN.I TRUELY DO NOT THINK WE SHOULD DISPENCE THE DRUG.I WILL BE LOOKING FOR SOME OTHER DRUG TO EASE HER PAIN.I THINK PEOPLE GET TIRED OF THE EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER AND GIVE THE DRUG TO EASE THEIR LIFE.SO THEY CAN STOP THE RIDE AND GET BACK TO THEIR NORMAL LIFE. AND I MUST SAY,IF WE ARE GIVING THE DRUG,AREN'T WE STEPPING IN GODS WAY?HE KNOWS THE PERFECT TIMING FOR EVEYTHING.

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    • DEBRA
      November 06, 2009
      DEBRA
      November 06, 2009

      I FEEL THE SAME WAY YOU DO. YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR STARVING THEM CAUSE THEY SLEEP ALL DAY AND DONT EAT. I MY FATHERNLAW IS IN HOSPICE ,TOO. THEY WANT TO GIVE HIM MORPHINE BUT MY HUSBAND DOESNT WANT TO GIVE IT. HES AT HIS LAST PHASE OF THE DISEASE. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE. I AM VERY DEPRESSED WATCHING HIM LYE THERE AND NOTHING I CAN DO. PLEASE GIVE ME ADVISE. THANKS

      DEBRA

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    • KATHY
      November 06, 2009
      KATHY
      November 06, 2009

      Deb,

           What a sad condition for everybody involved. Truthfully I feel if they are not in pain they do not need the morphine. At one point they had increased the morphine dosage and there were no changes.First off I wasn't giving the death drip. I find they,hospice want to help them pass. I myself think it is the lord who chooses our passing date. As long as he is not in pain I truely wouldn't force the morphine. Hospice means well I myself tend to wonder if there might be something they,the victim has to say or is there something he is waiting to hear. Is there anything that might be keeping him here,why he is not ready to let go? If there is ,maybe that needs to be resolved so that your father in law is not hanging on to his life wanting something to take place?

           We were lucky and were able to her home with us,so I was able to continue to talk with her and lay by her side. I was able to be with her until the very end. How beautiful her passing was and I will always remember that special time with her. We did let her know if she was ready so were we,and how much we will miss her and how we loved her and she will always be with us. Have you told him it is ok to pass and be with his loved ones? Is he a believer? Whisper in his ears what your heart tells you,and maybe he wants to be alone to pass. I wish we could talk more.If you get this before 8pm tonight please contact me.I will be gone for the wk end but Iwould like to be there for you. I will be home from work about 8 and then leaving again by 9

          God Bless you and your family, I know how hard it is for all of you.I just know when he does pass he will be so much better off and where he is loved and healthy. My prayers are with you. Blessings, Kathy

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    • Roxanne Douglas
      June 05, 2011
      Roxanne Douglas
      June 05, 2011

      My mother has had alz for  about 4 years. She now has hospice and is in a nursing home. She has round -the-clock sitters and I visit with her everyday for a few hours. She is on 10 mg Lortab 3 times a day but is still in pain. We were told the next step would be morphine and atavan. I am not sure what to do- morphine or Lortab. I think she is ready for the morphine because she cries out when we turn her every 2 hours. She can no longer take solid food because she throws it up and she can no longer get out of bed. If we start her on the morphine, is there a typical time frame before death occurs? I don't want her to suffer but I also don't want to speed her death.

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