I read that as a caregiver, that I can be held legally responsible if my husband hurts some one driving. The Dr notified the state DMV and he received letter instructing him to turn in his license later this week.

I just read this and I am devastated. I CAN"T stop him from driving. If I took away the keys he would tear up the house looking for them and my life would be hell. If I disabled the car, he would call tow truck. Even my daughter said these things that are suggested would NEVER work for him. He is asking our DR to order another driving test at a different hospital with another therapist 100 miles away because he keeps saying the first therapist had it in for him, "tore him to pieces," and etc... Not true of cousre.

The DUI lawyer that he hired ( not for drinking of course) is giving him false hope trying to schedule another driving test. I am calling my lawyer in AM to see what she can do and get emergency guardianship hearing set up ASAP. He can't get another driving test unless Dr prescribes it so am calling Dr in AM too.

My husband is 76, in great physical shape, looks 65, knows people and very good at hiding his dementia. However he can't talk to me about this driving problem when he is agitated and needs to read it all off notes. Can't pronounce words, uses wrong words and etc.

We have no long term care, no life insurance and he is wasting the little $ we have on this lawyer. I know when we spend down for medicare I can keep the house and my car.

I think I have just enough $ saved to pay off my 6 year old car and wonder if I should.

I am missing so much work, out on FMLA, so no income but won't lose my job. I am 62 so can't get medicare. Have had chronic back pain for years and severe osteoporosis.

Thank you all SO SO much for all your help, I can't tell you how much it helps.

God bless you.

Elizabeth