my mother-in-law (diagnosed with azheimer's) was just moved into a board and care home and the administrator is telling family that they (the facility) don't want my husband and his family visiting for a while until she gets adjusted. my husband doesn't participate in the caregiving (he just visits, holds her hand, and tries to talk to her) so it isn't a matter of her preferring the family's caregiving. my husband had to take his mother to the doctor last week and he wanted to stay a bit after he brought her back but the administrator asked him to leave. is this normal practice for board and care homes? having taken her to the doctor, he had already seen her that day, so what does it matter if he extends the time a bit? they're also discouraging her husband from visiting.