Hi Mary Pat,

People nearly all hate the "diaper" idea. It's so hard, because they can still understand the "stima" of a diaper. However, with bowel problems, I'm not sure there is an option. There are male versions of urine protection products available, but for bowels, more coverage is needed.

I hope someone has a better answer for you, as I'd like to hear if there is an alternative myself, but at this time I know of no option but full-on protection (of course not to be called a diaper whether the affected person calls it that or not). Much assurance that this happens to many people can help some, but it's difficult no matter what. We can all learn from each other. Any ideas out there?

Carol