Thanks so much for your question Donna.  It looks like you've gotten some good advice above. As she has just been diagnosed,  I thought I'd give you some links to our materials that could help to shed some light on this disease and what is happening with you grandmother.   Just Diagnosed: If you or someone you love has just been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease, you’re probably experiencing a variety of emotions.  Find articles written by those who have been where you are. They’ll help you wade through these first few days of uncertainty post-diagnosis with Alzheimer's.   Causes of Alzheimer's: Learn about the biological, genetic and environmental factors that determine who develops Alzheimer's and who does not.   Alzheimer's Web Resources: Get the latest news, information about research and treatment, get involved with advocacy and find support at these Alzheimer's sites.   Hope this helps and all the best, sue