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Avoiding drama ..

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agserra1 is mutli-faceted , 51 yr. old woman, who has many sides ... anxiety, depression, MS, FMS, CP and other health issues ...
51 yr. old woman living alone and trying to find a balance ....

Well, I am a blogger on many sites here .. and have been posting onn...

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Tuesday, February 03, 2009
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Sounds easy , NOT , especially when the drama comes from family .. last evening while wlking one of my dogs , I was listening to the sounds of the neighborhood , the music and laughter .. the moon was bright and stars were out .. nice ..   Then I heard a funny sound, so I stood and listened an...
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    Michel
    Tuesday, February 03, 2009 at 02:15 PM

    Christ Agserra are you ok ? youve been shot at did you go to the hospital ?

    Let me tell you what I think I dont care what your bro say's Damn its your life and no one should tell you to put yourself in arms way NOBODY and your mother thats the only thig she found to say at you...dont get involved.

     

    Shame on her (sorry) thats what I think you are her blood what is she thinking...obviously she's not thinking, I am Mad trough this site I have learned to know you a bit and it is true you have come a long way.

     

    But remember what comes around goes around

    That is one undeniable thing that I have learned in my life geezzzzzzzzz !

     

    As for your other post about making friends go for it dont let this stop you that is if you are ok.

     

    Suffolk

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    Eileen Bailey
    Tuesday, February 03, 2009 at 03:30 PM

    I am glad you are okay (physically) and that you were not harmed by the careless actions of these boys. As for calling the police, I think you must at all times take into consideration your safety and live by the rule you must do whatever is necessary to stay safe. That your brother is a deadbeat dad seems, to me, to be his problem to deal with. I must assume at this point there is a warrant out for his arrest. This, however, is not your problem. Your concern should be taking care of you, and that means doing what is necessary.

     

    If your brother did not want any problems with the police, maybe he should have paid his child support, then he would not have anything to worry about. Either way, you should not need to suffer because he has not paid.

     

    Again, I am glad you are okay.

     

    Eileen

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    re: Avoiding Drama
    agserra1
    Tuesday, February 03, 2009 at 03:52 PM

    Thank you both .. and yes, the problems are my brothers issues , when he invited me here it was in good faith , and I do make everyy attempt to respect his privacy .. issues keep popping up such as mail, insurance and we (my therpaist) handle them one ata atime ..

     

    Guilt is a huge part , empathy also .. I have that habit of tending to others needs and then neglecting my own ..

     

    I am learning though .. and I am doing okay .. as I mentioned .. I knew this was temporary , and his desire to make it fulltime is just that, his desire ..

     

    Too many details of mine get convoluted and so it makes for problems and stress I do not need .. but I am handling it , and have acknowledged that .. with each step forward , I now am not taking threeback .. agserra

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