Eileen thanks so much for explaining PTSD! I've been through harrowing situations that weren't abuse based, but whenever I'd hear people talking about similar things I'd have to leave the room or steer clear of all discussions on this type of truama. It never occured to me, even after years of avoidance, that this could be PTSD. A name was never given to it, so I thank you for explaining this now, or I probably never would have figured it out.
Your comment: Shutting down your emotions, or numbing yourself, helps protect you from feeling the fear and the hopelessness. But this also stops you from feeling joy, happiness and love. Pretty much explains how I felt, but didn't know why.
Thanks for an enlightening article and your candid recount of a horrible time in your life.
Pam
Thanks for your comments. While someone may not have "PTSD" (based on whether it interferes with your daily activities) they can certainly have mild symptoms that are worked around so they don't interfere and life can still go on. If it begins interfering and stopping you from taking care of yourself, then it is time to get help. It is incredible how long emotional trauma stays with us.
Thanks for sharing your experience.
Eileen
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Eileen...I had no idea that you had gone through this. You are such a sweet, caring, compassionate person...I cannot imagine how anyone would want to harm you. It makes me mad it does. My mother had gone through this. My sisters. It just isn't right.
It is an amazing testament to your resilence that you are here and helping others despite all that you have been through. Thank goodness you got out and began anew. You are an inspiration to others to show that...you can get out of an abusive situation and move on.
I am glad you are here.
Thank you so much for your kind words. I am also glad to be here and hope that my experience, not only with domestic violence but with mental illness will be helpful to others.
Eileen