15 ways to

1) Reward children

2) take their ideas, emotions and feelings seriously. Dont belittle them by saying you'll grow out of it or its not as bad as you think.

3) Define limits and rules clearly, and enforce them.

4) Be a good role model, let your children know that you feel good about yourself, also let them see that you can make mistakes and ler from them

5) Teach your children how to deal with time and money

6) Have resonable expectations for your children

7) help your children develop tolerance toward those with different values.

8) Give your children responsabilty

9) Be available

10) Show them that what they do is important to you

11) Express your values

12) Spend time together

13) Discuss problems without placing blame or commenting on the child's character

14 Use phrases that build self confidence

15) Show how much you care about them )) HUG THEM (( tell them they are terrific and that you love them

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