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PLEASE HELP HER I NEED TO KNOW

By Jayden Saturday, January 03, 2009

My teenage daugter who has an ex boyfriend that is obssed and will not leave her alone ,He waits outside of the house and she cant even go out . He has kidnapped her beat her.Ever since all thats happend she's bein under so much stress with everything just this last week she has had what appears to be seizures one lasted up to twenty minuties but when it happens she cant remeber anything about it, she was losing alot of hair when she was with him and he was abusing her and lately its falling out like crazy. How long are seizures,usally and does the person that has it not rember at all? Also can all the stress cause her to lose her hair?When she had what i think is seizures she looks like she dead she doesn't fail around but wben she starts to come out of it her eyes roll around and when she does come back she cryies which is not like her a all. Please i need to know what to do. Also the first time she had one of these she was foaming around her mouth her eyes where rolling around and then she looked like she passed out.HELP

1/ 4/09 11:57am

Sir

First and foremost bring your child in to see a Doctor I am not one but waht you describe looks a lot  like epilepsy seizure, but that might not be it so please have you child see a Doctor.

As for this ''boyfriend'' called the police and put in a formel complaint aginst him with a restrictive order of the court, shurely you have called the police by now you say he as kidnapped her this individual should be in jail by now.

Suffolk

Eileen Bailey, Health Guide
1/ 5/09 11:31am

This sounds as if it is a very stresful problem and I am sure your daughter, and whole family, are feeling the effects of it every day. I am sorry you are having such a difficult time right now.

 

Please take your daughter to the doctor if you have not already done so. Explain to the doctor what is going on and what has happened. If you do not have health insurance or cannot afford to go to the doctor, there are clinics that are either free or low cost, based on income. You can search for a clinic at: http://findahealthcenter.hrsa.gov

 

Also, you should call the Women's Abuse Hotline at 1-877-448-8678. Someone will be able to guide you through the legal process of getting a restraining order for the ex-boyfriend and provide you with legal advice for this situation.

 

Additionally, since your daughter is showing so many signs of stress from this relationship, you may want to consider getting her counseling to help her cope with this situation. If you don't have insurance or cannot afford counseling, talk with the people at the free clinic (website above) about counseling options in your area.

 

From your post I can see this is troubling you a great deal and I am sure you have your daughter's best interests and safety in mind.

 

Please, go and get help today!

 

Eileen Bailey

 

 

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By Jayden— Last Modified: 12/19/10, First Published: 01/03/09