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Clear Your Mind from Anxious Thoughts

By Jennifer L. Fee, Psy.D. Psychologist, Health Guide Wednesday, January 21, 2009
How do you feel when watching a sad movie? Do you laugh when you hear a good joke? Are you angry when you hear about an injustice? Our emotions are ever changing, depending on what's going on around us and how we react to it. So where does anxiety come from? Well, lots of places, but one huge tr...
2/25/10 7:41pm

I have tried meditation on my self, i have GAD and sometimes it is really helpful. but when anxiety attack is severe i can not think about anything, only problems come to my head and can not find solutions to solve that problems, it makes me more anxious and panicked, what can i do in that situation?? please help

thank you 

Anonymous
Don
5/10/10 10:10am

Hi,

I really like the mindfulness advice on this site. However, I wonder about the wisdom of trying to push distracting thoughts aside (recommended in the section on Lectio Divina). Thoughts that one struggles to push aside usually return with greater vehemence, simply because one has invested emotional energy (and maybe even a sense of urgency) in suppressing them. The best approach is to simply notice them, acknowledge their presence and return gently to our focus, be it the breath, a scriptural passage, etc. If they keep coming back, they will most likely do so with less urgency or strength. We should be patient with them and accepting. Struggle will only keep us locked in.

5/11/10 1:39pm

True...by "pushing aside" I only meant temporarily, while one is focussing on something else.  Some people can "notice" and work through distressing thoughts, others do better to put aside and come back to them later.  This is different than just ignoring or trying to push them away permanently...then they come back with a vengence!

5/11/10 10:36pm

Thanks, Dr., for the nuanced reflection on my comment. Much appreciated.

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By Jennifer L. Fee, Psy.D. Psychologist, Health Guide— Last Modified: 12/06/10, First Published: 01/21/09