I have a 14 year old that has the same thing and its been hell i had to pull her out of 8 grade and we did a homebound she hated it she cryed all the time but she couldnt make in school now we are going to enter into hs and i know now what its gunnal take to get her to school and make it, HER FRIENDS, KEEP HER IN CLASSES WITH HER FRIENDS KEEP her IN COMFORT ZONEmaybe you ought to try and do that and put a 504 in plan if you can to give her what its gunna take, its hard to work with the school because they think they know whats best but they know nothing,so NO you dont make her go to school you find what its gunna take to make it work and go fight with that, dont force because it makes it worst..................e-mail me back at