This is very difficult for me to admit, but I firmly believe that the lack of libido caused by my meds, contributed to my divorce. I wasnt interested at all... When I started coming down off of my meds, Lamictal, Lexapro & Xanax...I saw a huge change in my libido. I came down gradually off my meds and I noticed that even lowering the doses helped. Of course, now that I am off of my meds (because of $$$) I really feel like I need to be back on them, but maybe at the lower dose level. It is of course to late to save my marriage, I wish I would have tried lowering my doses a few years ago, but the doctor didnt seem to think it was a good idea.