We are now in a long distance relationship as he moved back with his family. He is finally in treatment and seems to be improving.  However, while he says he wants to continue the relationship, he is only "comfortable" making his life back there. The pain I have been experiencing is no longer manageable without knowing if/when we will have our life back. He cannot answer that. I need to get out of this but don't want to contribute to his issues with a breakup. Or, will it not affect his anxiety? I know he will be heartbroken.  One aspect of his behavior is that he goes out of communication -- sometimes for days -- when he doesn't want to give me an answer he knows will hurt me.  I have spoken to him about it, but he continues to do it.  It is causing me to lose sleep, etc.  When we are together, we resolve things amazingly well.  The issue is definitely exacerbated by the distance as he is able to "hide out".  Up until this started...we had been planning on getting married. I am heartbroken but don't know what else to do other than leave. What if this sets him back or he stops his therapy?