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Thursday, April 23, 2009 Jacsmom1 asks

Q: My daughter has missed quite a few days from school this year due to illnesses. I have gotten medica

My daughter has always gotten sick and caught every thing under the sun so easily. I have always taken her to the doctors. She has always been seen if she missed time from school. Not just for little things but serious infections and very high fevers and flus and illnesses that made it impossible to go to school.

However, her school called her doctor's office and tried to threaten them because she has missed so much time this year. They wanted the doctor to approve her for homeschooling but the doctor said, no, it wasn't necessary. They kept calling back although my daughter had medical excuses. Now, her doctor of 12 years dropped her.

She has a new doctor and couldn't be seen until a few days, for a bladder infection or uniary tract infection, and they are trying to mark these couple of absences unexcused, so she will fail the semester. I want to know what my daughter's rights are.

The school has alrewady said, that they would call and notify her new doctor about her absences, not caring if they drop her too. They are trying to make it impossible for my daughter to get medical treatment when she is ill and in need.

They even pull her out of class, when she is at school (without my consent or knowledge) and threaten her with her grades and tell her she needs to go to school. When my 15 year old tells them that she was sick and went to the doctor's they told her it doesn't matter.

My daughter had a panic attack today, because someone from her high school pulled her out of class and told her she was going to fail for the semester because she was home, with a bladder infection.

 

What are my daughter's rights? If her student handbook states that medical excuses are automatically excused, then why are they trying to make it so hard for her? She's not skipping school or some place else. She has always been home with me and gone to the doctors.

All of this harassment from the school has made my daughter get panic attacks and she has asthma, too. Therefore, this triggers her asthma and she wants to quit school because of this. She is an honor roll student.

 

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Eileen Bailey, Health Guide
4/24/09 11:46am

Thank you for your question and welcome to AnxietyConnection.com

 

Each state has it's own rules and laws regarding missing school. In some states, if you miss more than a certain number of days per year (16 in my state), then you will need to repeat the grade. This is excused or unexcused absences. This is not normally an individual school policy but a state law.

 

You should contact your state Department of Education and ask what the regulations are in your state and find out what are the consequences of missing school.

 

Iin addition, you may want to ask the Department of Education about what the school is doing, they would be more aware of the regulations in your state.

 

Eileen

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4/24/09 3:44pm

I already know that in my state, that as long as you have medical excuses and they are documented, then they are not suppose to be harassing my daughter to the point where they keeo calling her previous doctors office and trying to force their hand into signing my daughter into a home schoolimg program.

I had already spoke to my daughter's doctor and we both agreed that she did not require any such thing. The school board could not take no for an answer, and they called day after day, even when my daughter was sitting in school. They would call.

Finally, after 12 years at the same office, they decided to drop my daughter because of the school.

My daughter started to seeing a new doctor today, and they better not start messing with that office. No reason to. She hasn't missed any days with this office or anything.

Thanks for the info though.

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By Jacsmom1— Last Modified: 12/25/10, First Published: 04/23/09