I have not yet been diagnosed with anxiety, but from what I have researched it seems as though I might. It has been 2 months now with symptoms of worry. I have pinpointed why I am worrying and I would like to know if these thoughts of worry are normal in anxiety sufferers. I have constant thoughts and worry over my boyfriend for no reason. I just fear seeing him the thought of seeing him freaks me out, I think about it all day at work. I just feel like I can't be the fun silly loving person I used to be around him. I don't feel that connection, but I want it back because I know I love him, but these thoughts just keep intruding and I don't know how to control them or keep them away. My heart pounds, and it gets a little better when I am around him, but then the thoughts come back and i cry because he is just a great person. He is definately the person I want to marry. I just fear that my feelings and normal thoughts for him won't come back. Is this normal? Am I going crazy? Do you have any suggestions of what I should do. My regular physician put me on cymbalta, but is that even a good anxiety medication? Should I go talk to a therapist about this instead? Thank you..any bit of advice would help!