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20 Ways to Deal with Holiday Anxiety

Eileen Bailey Dec 3rd, 2012 (updated Nov 30th, 2016)
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During the holiday season, those with anxiety often feel symptoms increase and become out of control. Some people with anxiety feel overwhelmed by the activities or have financial difficulties, and the expectations of our holiday season may not measure up to the reality in our lives. When anxiety increases during this time of year, people sometimes ignore discussing it with their doctor or seeking help. They may feel it is normal to feel anxious and therefore feel they must somehow live through it or they may feel there really isn’t any help available.

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Spend some time giving to someone else
Spend some time giving to someone else

This can be through volunteering for a local organization or just helping people that may need assistance. Helping someone else makes you feel good and reminds you of the spiritual meaning of the holiday season.

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Lower your expectations
Lower your expectations

Keep your expectations of the season realistic. Instead of spending more money than you can afford, limit your purchases to meet your budget. Instead of believing your family get-together will be perfect, accept your relationship with your family. Instead of spending every night at a different function, spend some time at home, enjoying quality time with family or friends.

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Get plenty of rest
Get plenty of rest

It is tempting to spend extra time at parties or events and then still get up early the next morning for work. But it is important to continue to get a good night's sleep each night. Anxiety attacks can happen more frequently if you do not get the proper rest.

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Maintain a healthy lifestyle
Maintain a healthy lifestyle

As much as rest is important, eating healthy and continuing (or beginning) an exercise program to keep up a healthy lifestyle is important to keeping anxiety attacks minimal and under control.

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Alter your situation
Alter your situation

Instead of getting angry and irritated at the long lines, take the time to start a conversation with someone else standing in line and wish them a happy and healthy holiday season. Bringing a smile to someone else can improve your mood and help spread the spiritual meaning of the holidays.

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Practice communication and listening skills
Practice communication and listening skills

Use methods such as repeating back what someone has said to let them know you have heard them. Gently change the subject if a conversation is becoming stressful for you or for another family member.

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Limit time spent at holiday parties
Limit time spent at holiday parties

Especially if you feel uncomfortable. How much time you spend at the party is not as important as being there. Come late and then excuse yourself early. Showing up is sometimes all that matters.

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Watch what you consume
Watch what you consume

Avoid alcohol, as it can increase anxiety symptoms.

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Don't go alone
Don't go alone

Bring a friend with you to holiday parties to provide support.

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Consider the traveling involved
Consider the traveling involved

If you are traveling by car to visit relatives, drive at off peak times to avoid traffic, consider resting during the day and driving after dinner instead of driving during the day.

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Slow down
Slow down

Take your time driving, drive at a safe speed, don’t use your cell phone when driving and defer the right of way to an aggressive driver.

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Plan ahead
Plan ahead

If traveling by air, schedule flights during off peak hours, check with the airport for scheduling changes, and give yourself plenty of time to get to the airport.

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Be prepared
Be prepared

Remember delays at the airport are normally safety measures and done to be sure all travelers remain safe during their journey.

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Have support
Have support

If you are prone to anxiety attacks, let a friend know you may be calling during your trip for support. Your friend may be able to talk to you and provide ways for you to remain calm.

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Make plans
Make plans

If you don’t have family in the area and will not be visiting family, talk to co-workers and friends to find out who else is in the same situation. Ask if they might be interested in having a holiday dinner together.

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Avoid lonliness
Avoid lonliness

If you are feeling lonely, reach out to talk with someone, whether by phone or to get together with someone for a social event. Don’t sit home feeling lonely and depressed.

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Do your research
Do your research

Check the local newspaper for holiday concerts and events. These are normally low cost or free and can fit into anyone’s budget. Take your family to community events. Not only will you feel part of your community, but you will have enjoyed spending time with your family.

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Allow downtime
Allow downtime

Take time out of the holiday events to spend an evening at home, quietly. Watch a movie with your family or just spend time being by yourself.

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Manage your shopping
Manage your shopping

Plan ahead for shopping trips or entertaining. Avoid last minute scrambling to get gifts or buy supplies for cooking. Make lists and have a purpose for shopping trips.

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Acknowledge your feelings
Acknowledge your feelings

Acknowledge your feelings. If you are feeling sad or highly anxious, accept your feelings. There may be a legitimate reason for feeling sad or anxious. Use strategies such as deep breathing or other relaxation techniques to help you calm down.