Martyr asthmatics sometimes think their own toughness and sheer willpower will beat their asthma symptoms into submission. They don't seek breathing help when they need it and may forgo asthma medication. If they get help, it's because a spouse or a loved one forces them or pleads with them to do so.

Their biggest fear, although they won't admit it, is that they will be told their asthma is all in their head, and then they'll feel stupid. So, they think it's easier just to pretend they are fine.

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