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Welcome! Join our Community to Learn, Help and Share

By Jeremy Shane, Health Guide Monday, May 02, 2011

Welcome to HealthCentral's community about autism spectrum disorders.  Our community is for people with ASDs, their parents, brothers and sisters, and friends.  Our goal is to help you learn from others who have personal experience with autism, and for you to share what you have learned.  We hope your collective wisdom will help others make decisions large and small for their loved ones and themselves.  We want to share successes and support each other through trials and setbacks.

 

How You Can Help

 

This community will grow only if you and everyone else who adds their thoughts here are sure you are in a place you can trust, a place you will be respected, and where your identity or other personal information will not be shared outside this community without your choice or knowledge.  That is our commitment to you.

 

In return, we ask you to help make this community a place of warmth and insight.  Share your questions, experiences, frustrations, triumphs:  what you've tried, what has worked, and what has not.  The only thing certain about autism is:  it will take the combined strength of our community's millions of people working together to understand autism in its many dimensions.

 

Starting a community about ASDs is complex.  People have very strongly held beliefs about what causes ASDs, whether certain treatments are "cures" or even whether it is right to speak of a "cure" when many find their ASD to be of great benefit.  These are extremely important questions, at once personal and existential, but not the ones we want to focus on here.

 

Focus on Practical Advice

 

This community is intended to help people in very practical and real-world ways.  The journey from concern to diagnosis, and then from childhood to adulthood involves some key, life-changing choices ... and a million everyday decisions from meals to reward charts to going shopping to school issues and how much TV or video games to allow.  It means tackling some difficult subjects, like how do you talk to your ASD teen about going through puberty and becoming a responsible young man or woman.  And above all, it is a swirl of emotional and relationship joys and challenges.

 

We want our community to share ideas about techniques, treatments, and strategies that have worked for you, and those that for whatever reason, did not.  Together we can find better paths forward.  This community is for both moms and dads awash in the confusion of a fresh diagnosis and for people who have gotten through the early years, but wonder now about teen years and beyond.  We hope those with an ASD will want to share experiences from their past, what they wish others had understood about the way they thought or felt, and about their moments of joy.  This is for brothers or sisters who love their ASD sibling(s) with all their hearts but wonder and worry what it means for their lives.  It is for wives and husbands who feel like they're sinking under the weight of work, kids, finances, and marriage pressures.

By Jeremy Shane, Health Guide— Last Modified: 05/02/11, First Published: 05/02/11