my girlfriend is bipolar about 14 weeks ago we found out she was pregnant. at that time she tols me the doctor instructed her to go off her medication. i tild her i didn't think being off her meds was a good idea for any reason but for the sake of the babies it was something she needed to do. i also told her at that time that i feared she would leave me, or the babies wouldn't be born at all. she said just don't push my buttons and everything would be fins. unfortunately sometimes everything is her button.  since the time we found out she was pregnant the arguments have become more and more frequent.  the latest started on easter. we decided to spend easter apart with our indevidual families. when she got back home from hers she was aggitated but we got through it. the next morning she woke in a seemingly fine mood, but then noticed the hair gel on the counter in the bathroom.  that sparked a week of hell constant fights, it seemed the more i tried to calm her the worse it got.  with all the arguing i became more aggitated as well.  on thursday after easter she blocked me from contacting her on her phone .  friday she started having contractions.  these contractions ultimately damaged the membrane that seperated the babies.  on monday she served me with a protective order and now i have no contact whatsoever with her.  i worry about her well being and the babies so much.  i've tried to plead with her in the past saying she's not acting normal, but that just seems to enrage her.  i love her so much and love those babies she's carrying inside her.  today is the trial for the protective order and i don't know what to do.  bringing up the bipolar disorder will just make her angry again.  not bringing it up will i'm afraid make me look verbally abusive.  i fear for my future with my children and i fear for her well being. what do i do?