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my boyfriend is bipolar

jozie Community Member November 29, 2009
  • my boyfriend is bipolar we live together i have one girl and one boy who is bipolar as well my boyfriend smokes weed and is also on bipolar meds. he has bad up and down moods he had one really bad one the other day see his brother has been staying with us for about a month now and he smokes weed too and my boyfriend has been trying to stop because it makes his moods real bad when it wears off his brother has been puting this stuff in his face saying smoke with me well one day i had a feeling my boyfriend gave his brother money we have been saveing so i went to talk to him about it hopeing he would tell me the truth he got made yelled at me said he didnt give him money he was so made he was calling me names after awile things got better then i got a text message from his brothers wife saying she wanted to know where her husband was geting money so yet again asked my boyfriend if he gave his brother money he got mad again and called me names and said i am not lieing i am sick of this and tried to pick up a chair and thow it out the window started to pack his stuff and leave yelling at me the whole time he grabed me and said real bad things to me his brother was there the whole time and kept telling him i was nothing but a b---and to get away from me it seemed to me his brother was useing my boyfriends illnees to get money from him his brother knew he was ill and he kept keeping him going i am now trying to get my boyfriends brother out of  the house because now my boyfriend smokes weed all the time stays high and just dont seem to talk to me or want time with me all he wants to do is get high with his brother

     

     

4 Comments
  • nickole5454
    Dec. 01, 2009

    jozzie,

     i agree with wat evry one of the cmments are saying.. i have grown up with a bipolar mother and a father that drinks way to much. i my self now have anger issuses if this dose not stop it will later take effect on your children

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    RHMLucky777

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    jozzie,

     i agree with wat evry one of the cmments are saying.. i have grown up with a bipolar mother and a father that drinks way to much. i my self now have anger issuses if this dose not stop it will later take effect on your children

                                                       good luck!

                                                                nickole

  • sarashanti
    Dec. 01, 2009

    Hello Girl I really just want to comment as briefly and as honest as I can ... You say you have to children and that one that one is bipolar well as mother i know that you mention that this is your boyfriend and you care about him and there is alot of emotions and feelings and love involved here but sweetie but when a relationship starts to escalate to violence...

    RHMLucky777

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    Hello Girl I really just want to comment as briefly and as honest as I can ... You say you have to children and that one that one is bipolar well as mother i know that you mention that this is your boyfriend and you care about him and there is alot of emotions and feelings and love involved here but sweetie but when a relationship starts to escalate to violence and yelling it's time to really revaluate the relationship because of the safety of your children for oneyou know and I am going to be as honest as possiable you do not have children in a safe enviorment if you have them in a home where there is weed being smoked number two especially where there is spousal abuse starting to go on with there mom cause seeing early signs of this as a child can cause probloms and effect your children latter in life... So if you are a women who love yourself and your children you can only do so much for a person with bipolar that have to be willing to do the rest your boyfriend knows what he is doing everytime he puts a joint in his mouth so dont expect his medications to work cause all it's going to do is mess with all his brain chemistry and make him down and up so if he loves he he will be willing to make that change for the good if not then think of you and yourself and your kids cause those mood swings and those days he starts breaking windows yelling and maybe hitting you will bring the department of family social services knocking at your door and you don't need to lose your kids so be posetive dont give up hope dont give up he can change but you need to worry about you and your kids hope this helps you out jozie.....

     

     

  • alxv
    Nov. 30, 2009

    Hello Jozie,

     

    I'm sorry to know you are going through some rough time with your bf. I have Bipolar disorder and I don't control people or call them names when I get angry, instead I keep my mouth shut and go to my bedroom until I feel better or if I'm outside the house I do my very best not to explode my anger or bad moods on others.

     

    You have a...

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    Hello Jozie,

     

    I'm sorry to know you are going through some rough time with your bf. I have Bipolar disorder and I don't control people or call them names when I get angry, instead I keep my mouth shut and go to my bedroom until I feel better or if I'm outside the house I do my very best not to explode my anger or bad moods on others.

     

    You have a problem in your house with those two and you are putting your kids at risk, I think you really have to do something to stop that abusive behavior from both of them since they don't respect you or your children. Although weed sounds like a light drug, I've smoked it a long time ago, it may have the effect of unlocking feelings we normally would keep under control.

     

    I suggest you get help from your family and friends to get yourself out of that situation before it's too late.

    Don't ever act alone with those two, they are a lot stronger than you are... If you don't see a solution to get them out of the house in peace, then leave with your kids, you still have time to do that, don't wait for them to change, they already made their choice not to...

     

    Best of luck,

     

    Alex

  • 1whocares
    Nov. 29, 2009

    Your boyfriend AND his brother need to be outta there period.

    You have kids in the house being exposed to all of this negative behaviour.

    I am not sure why you posted , you didn't ask for advice , but If anyone does respond

    I think you can expect a " lecturing " tone .

     

    Let's see ... boyfriend ( such as he is ) gets high ( real smart when treating bipolar...

    RHMLucky777

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    Your boyfriend AND his brother need to be outta there period.

    You have kids in the house being exposed to all of this negative behaviour.

    I am not sure why you posted , you didn't ask for advice , but If anyone does respond

    I think you can expect a " lecturing " tone .

     

    Let's see ... boyfriend ( such as he is ) gets high ( real smart when treating bipolar ).

    Boyfriends brother ... another upstanding young man who likes the " weed ".

    The mom ... allows the above mentioned clients to engage in their little crazy drama

    with kids in the house .   Hmmmmmm