I posted here back in March. I mentioned in a very lengthy post about having been put through hell again and again, being married to someone who has been diagnosed, but like so many, refuses to get help.
Well, finally I've mustered up the courage, gumption, drive, call it what you want...to move o...
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Moving on
mom2twins
Tuesday, August 12, 2008 at 07:32 AM -
I know how you feel...
NewBride
Tuesday, August 12, 2008 at 12:51 PMThank you for posting on my sharepost... I too have filed already. I hope you don't leave the home because yes it could look bad later on. But I know it's hard to stay in a place where you feel terrorized each and every day. We must be one very strong group of people to deal with this huh? I miss what I had or what I thought I would have so much sometimes, but I know my life will be better in the long run without him. It's just hard to know that. For all that we've done for them and put up with, we deserve better ladies.
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Not your fault.
Lawalla
Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 05:22 AM -
Not your fault.
Lawalla
Tuesday, August 19, 2008 at 05:31 AM
Dear Blameme: If you look at my posts under mom2twins, you will see that I have just filed legal separation from my bipolar husband. I have been married 20 years, I had to do it because I started to discover spending sprees that would affect me financially. HE is the one that left me 10 months ago but he was only diagnosed bipolar back in May of this year.
he is on meds which are starting to work, he says his love for me is coming back....but, it is too late. He was a selfish, immature man all those 20 years. he completely neglected me.
Blameme, all the love and supprt you give him will make no difference if he is unmedicated. My heart goes out to you...i know your pain..
joanne
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