I think my husband has bi-polar disorder. He goes into the manic depressive states, and I'm always on eggshells, not knowing when next he's going to be hyper happy, depressed or ready for a fight. Apparently, he also early on told his mom he was "different" and has always felt he never fits into society, can't make it work for him. He always has to be right, and know better than anybody. I always have to give in to keep the peace. We've only been married for three years, but I've sure acquired grey hairs since that time. The problem is he thinks others are the problem. How do I deal with this? I'm going crazy, and feeling desperate and hopeless.