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Dear Expert Patient,
What about when the patient tweaks the meds herself? For example, my daughter's doctor prescribes meds and if they make her too tired, or don't produce results, she decreases or increases the dose respectively. She used to work for a doctor, she's very smart, reads all the med literature, and thinks she knows it all. This is a form of noncompliance that is very difficult to deal with, especially when the patient is an adult and I as her mother, for example, have no access to the doctor.
How common is this do you think?
Thanks,
DaisyMom
Hi, DaisyMom. I don't know the fine points of Geodon, but if your daughter had this conversation with her psychiatrist and together they reaching a meeting of minds on these kind of issues, then that would be good practice. Everyone would win.
The catch is your daughter needs to articulate these needs to her pdoc. If she doesn't trust her pdoc, she either needs to work on her trust issues or shop for a new pdoc.
In other words, all she may have to do is tweak herself a bit to turn into a compliant patient, but one in charge, with her own discretion to tweak up or down.