I have been in a relationship with a wonderful man who happens to be diagnosed with BPII. I care very deeply for him, but I am afraid that I am very uneducated about the illness. I have been reading and researching about it as much as I can, but I have also found that there are limited discussions surrounding specifically BPII. We have been dating for about six months now. I think he is the love of my life. We have a million things in common and we really enjoy ourselves when we're together. I am patient and understanding, but I am just starting to recognize his mood changes. I have a few questions becuase I am a little uneasy and unsure about what to expect. He was honest with me about his illness within the first few weeks of dating. I realize some of these questions may seem trivial, but I can't bring myslef to asking them to him... yet. I appreciate everyone's insight on this... :)

He has had, what I've perceived as at least 4 depressive moods (lasting 2-3 days) in the last six months. I have only noticed two hypomanic episodes which only lasted a few hours - a full day. Is this common or am I mistakening these?

I have read that in a depressive mood, a person may say or do things they later regret that can  be hurtful.. would the same apply to  hypomanic episode? My guy professed love to me and I think it was while he was manic.(Although, he's continued ever since...)

How can I best help him when he's feeling exhausted and low? He is very good at telling me when he's in a foul moud or doesn't feel up for company. I do not punish him for this, I support him. But, I have read that you should try to be near them. Should I pop in to check on him? Or leave him alone?

I care for him because he is the kindest, most compassionate, intelligent and creative person that I have ever met. I want to be able to continue our relationship, but I also know that I have to learn to understand exactly what this would involve from both of us.