My brother has just been diagnosed with bipolar disorder. Refuses to take meds. Has a wife and 3 children that he is walking away from. Has been having an affair, lost his job, about to lose his home. Tried to cancel all of the family's insurance. Disowned my mother. Spiraling out of control and I have no idea how to even begin to deal with this. I know he cares about his family, but the disease is clouding his mind. Can anyone relate?



If he was diagnosed with Bipolar and diagnosed as having a "manic" cycle... then the cycle will end eventually and when it does... the depressive will occur.
If he becomes a danger to himself (even threatens) and/or to others AT ANY TIME call 911, tell the authorities he has Bipolar.
You and your sis-in-law may want to review your State's laws about those with mental illness and what one can do when a family member with mental illness is having a crisis.