What can I do to help my husband with his bipolar? His family has a history of bipolar, but this is all new for me. My husband and I argue all the time and he blames me for everything bad in his life. He's on medication and goes to counseling and we just started going to marraige counseling, but what else can I do? He doesn't follow the advise he's been given by his doctors or counselors. When I try to talk to him about the things he's doing I just get accused of being bossy and controling. We have two small children and I feel like I've become a single parent to them. He's so focused on himself that he can't see how the things he does hurts the people around him. This is just the beginning of a long road for us, and I can't help but wonder if staying with him will be worth everything in the end that the kids and I have to go through. If anyone has any advise please help me!!