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Triumph - and the Letdown

TMarie
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TMarie is feeling oddly balanced.

Writer, artist, restaurant owner; married mom of 4.

TMarie

Tuesday, May 27, 2008
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I'm feeling fragile today and began this post to reach out for support. As I was writing, though, I also realize that I really am making some progress in my still-shaky recovery.   It would have been unthinkable just three months ago, but Friday we hosted an open house...
  1. Chin up
    Amy T
    Tuesday, May 27, 2008 at 08:31 PM

    I know it seems silly to say and it's hard to do right now, but keep your chin up.  I always try to tell myself that tomorrow is coming, and hopefully you will feel better.  It makes me feel better just knowing that this site is out here and you can vent, share thoughts, and get encouragement.  Good luck!

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    re: Chin up
    TMarie
    Tuesday, May 27, 2008 at 09:27 PM

    Thank you, Amy T. I appreciate your kind words - they're not silly at all. I needed the reminder.

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  2. good for you
    otterlo
    Sunday, June 01, 2008 at 10:02 AM

    some time we just need to do things and make our lives a verb and how great you ask for help.  I think what you did was grand and I sincerely hope you do not sink into a depression again (I know how that feels)......good luck!

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    TMarie
    Sunday, June 01, 2008 at 03:45 PM

    Thanks so much, Otterlo. It has continued to be a difficult week, but after 4 days of depression, worse each day, it is starting to lift. Trying to just take today as it comes. Part of the relief of diagnosis and knowledge is that now I have my feelings in better perspective; I know they can get overblown, and I have better tools for dealing with it and learning patience. So while the depression was miserable, this time I was maybe a little bit better about not looking ahead and seeing only doom. A little.

     

    I'm sorry you struggle with depression too - I hope that you have found resources there for support. Every person is different and benefits from different things. But I'm lucky and glad that I have group each week, and therapy every few weeks. It has been invaluable to hear other people's stories of depression and bipolar, and talk if I need to. 

     

    I hope you are well.

     

     

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    Anonymous
    Wednesday, June 04, 2008 at 10:23 AM

    WOW!!!  Very inspiring from a supporters view.  I hope the depression lifts quickly.  Good for you to ask your friends for help.  What would we do without our girlfriends?

    Even from someone without bp, parties like these make me anxious.  It is all about progress, and you recognize the progress!! 

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    TMarie
    Thursday, June 05, 2008 at 09:24 AM

    Oh, I'm so glad this was helpful to you. Every person is different but I hope that the person you support is on a good path towards wellness. There is hope! There are more and more resources out there as more is understood about the bipolar spectrum.

     

    Myself, I'm finding that I tend to rapid cycle...depression has now lifted (thanks for your well wishes, btw) and now I've been repeating to myself, "Whoa there, missy..." :)  I'm thinking that going overboard with the party has kicked off the pendulum again, but it's slowing down already.

     

    Early recognition of the signs of elevation and over-stimulation is huge. It's a big switch to slow yourself down at those signs, when all your life you've answered to them, enjoyed them, making up for the doldrums of depression suffered more often than not. I'm thankful that I've been given the motivation (fear, love of my family, and finally, truly loving myself) to work on making the change.

     

    Yeah - girlfriends are the best. :)

     

     

     

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