I need help and advice. My husband is in denial that he has bi polar, it has progressed awfully the last month, sometimes in one day he exhibits every emotion possible. He tells me at least daily that he is leaving because "there is nothing in this house for him", "the kids don't want him around", "you don't involve me in any activities", all of which are not true. Each nite I go to bed and tell him I love him no matter what, and while that may be true, I also cannot live that any longer. My mortgage is due on the 1st of the month. On Friday he got paid 818.00 and he spent 810.00 leaving me short $$, we both have our pays deposited to the same account, it has not been a problem until the last 6 months where he has no concept of how much it costs to run a home. I am considering having my pay put in another account and paying my own car insurance. That would leave him with his own debt, car insurance and I would ask him to pay part of the mortgage? Is this reasonable? This is my 2nd marriage, how do I approach the subject as I never know what mood he will be in? Any help is appreciated.
