bipolar partner deserts relationship

Hate to say it but she most likely won't come back my second wife did me the same way and though i loved her i left and now don't give her a second thought. And most bipolar people are very sexual or i am at least but she's still talking to you that could be a good sign but once the name calling starts we'll usually go because we think we're making someone miserable. But i hope she does come back and if she does don't start accusing her or she'll just leave again.

I'm truly sorry your partner has left, but sometimes that's the best solution.

With or without having Bipolar disorder, respect, support and working the best we can on any relationship, should be for everybody and in this case she's the one with BP but you were the abusive one, so why should she stay? Love is not enough when respect is out of the equation. If you really love her, then let her be happy no matter the choices she makes, she is free to do the best for her. Don't ever blame Bipolar disorder on the decisions people make, blame the abusive behavior or something else when things don't work out as you want them to be. I guess you have learned that nobody likes to be mistreated with or without being ill.

Alex