It's Mandy, i was the one who wrote the little mini romance novel last night asking for advice. I talked to the ex today and broke down, i told him he's driving me to my breaking point and such. I also told him i joined a support group thing. I was afraid he'd check it, so i took my last one down. If tabby and eric don't get my replies, i just want to say thank you. Eric, your honesty though painful was much needed, i needed a male perspective and tabby, your story is heartwrenching, your sisters too. Though its a bit of a wake up call for me. For those who didn't read what i last wrote, and still wanted to be supporitive and give advice. Short synopsis, i went on a mission trip 2 yrs ago and met and fell in love with a man i'm convinced is bipolar. He was in a bad relationship with an abusive alcoholic at the time. He broke it off with her, and dated me for a long time. He was the perfect boyfriend, so so loving. He started taking weightloss pills, went a little nuts and dumped me right after professing his undying love for me. We had a life and future planned and it went kaput. Now its nearing two yrs later, and he wants me back. He never stopped trying to get me. Now that i want him back as well, he tells me he's leaving his other girlfriend (the abusive alcoholic) but he keeps delaying it more and more. and i'm at a loss of what to do to make him wake up from his bipolar mood swings..so any advice is appreciated!