just some random thoughts I had when reading your sharepost. they are neither here nor there, right or wrong, salt or sugar... just thoughts
he is not on meds or receiving any treatment/therapy
you are young
his illness is unstable and not managed cause he isn't receiving proper treatment
his life will continue to be unstable because his illness is unstable
he is not managing his illness
his moods and life will stabilize if he were to receive proper treatment and properly manage the Bipolar
THAT IS, if he truly has been diagnosed with the disorder
as long as his illness is unstable... your life will be unstable along with his as long as you are along with him
you need to decide how much instability you can handle and where to put your line in the sand and then follow up with the consequences when he crosses it.. which he will, as long as his illness is unstable
as far as his current behavior being simply from Bipolar? Who knows?
1000s of people who do not have mental illness do the same thing
it's not a Bipolar thing exclusively
doesn't answer the question, I know but it is a answer all the same
would God do this? Only God can answer that question. No mere human can and we are so far ill equipped to second or third guess God and his ways and means.
as far as what to do to keep him from running?
not one friggin thing
you can't cage someone who doesn't want to be caged
if he is going to run, he'll run
why would you want to force someone to stay or better yet, change yourself in hoping to keep someone?
just some random thoughts I had when reading your sharepost. they are neither here nor there, right or wrong, salt or sugar... just thoughts
he is not on meds or receiving any treatment/therapy
you are young
his illness is unstable and not managed cause he isn't receiving proper treatment
his life will continue to be unstable because his illness is unstable
he is not managing his illness
his moods and life will stabilize if he were to receive proper treatment and properly manage the Bipolar
THAT IS, if he truly has been diagnosed with the disorder
as long as his illness is unstable... your life will be unstable along with his as long as you are along with him
you need to decide how much instability you can handle and where to put your line in the sand and then follow up with the consequences when he crosses it.. which he will, as long as his illness is unstable
as far as his current behavior being simply from Bipolar? Who knows?
1000s of people who do not have mental illness do the same thing
it's not a Bipolar thing exclusively
doesn't answer the question, I know but it is a answer all the same
would God do this? Only God can answer that question. No mere human can and we are so far ill equipped to second or third guess God and his ways and means.
as far as what to do to keep him from running?
not one friggin thing
you can't cage someone who doesn't want to be caged
if he is going to run, he'll run
why would you want to force someone to stay or better yet, change yourself in hoping to keep someone?