Saturday, May 18, 2013
Introducing Mood 24/7, a new tool that helps you track your mood from day to day using your mobile phone. Try it today!

Wednesday, April 18, 2012 Judy asks

Q: Should i leave my bipolar partner of 10 years ( I am losing my strength and its draining me)

I have a a bipolar partner and she is taking her tablets but when she hits her manic times she becomes viscous and very hurtful to me and our son he lands up shaking for he knows what is coming up he is 8 years old we land up holding each other tightly and crying in his room with my partner Kicking the door down she becomes violent and very scary and if i cry she orders me to stop so cos i am a cry baby and i am feeling sorry for myself this lasts for a few hours then after that, i don't know what her triggers are i just feel or even see in her facial features that she is in that mood and who ever is in her way she goes crazy on, I love her sooooo much but i think of my son and my sanity it has come to a point that i am so depressed cos i don't see the light at the end of the tunnel anymore. my son his a emotional wreck don't know if he is coming or going anymore he is only eight, i try to be the buffer between him and her but when she is like that she knows our son is the only thing that will hurt me so naturally that is her target, when she is not in manic she is the most amazing person we have amazing days together as a family and she is totally amazing with our son, i have tried to talk to her regarding her manic episodes that never helps it opens the CAN off warms that triggers it , please help me my email is judysubel@live.co.za PLEASE I BEG YOU
Answer This
Answers (2)
Marcia Purse, Health Guide
4/30/12 7:44am

A single look at what you're doing to your son should be all the answer you need. Why do you continue to expose him to such violence? Get out!

Reply
5/18/12 4:33pm

Pray to the Holy Spirit :)

 

May God guides you in all His Truth. 

 

Have joy, Christ has conquered death.

 

Raffy.

Reply
Answer This

Important:
We hope you find this general health information helpful. Please note however, that this Q&A is meant to support not replace the professional medical advice you receive from your doctor. No information in the Answers above is intended to diagnose or treat any condition. The views expressed in the Answers above belong to the individuals who posted them and do not necessarily reflect the views of Remedy Health Media. Remedy Health Media does not review or edit content posted by our community members, but reserves the right to remove any material it deems inappropriate.

By Judy— Last Modified: 05/18/12, First Published: 04/18/12