My son and I were very close until he got married. ( he is 26) Things started to go down hill at a slow pace, once he got married. Once my Grandchild was born, I was only allowed to see him once a month when my daughter in law worked two shifts. They lived 2.5 hours away. I saw him once a month for six months. Now he is 45 mins away and My son and I had a huge fight and I am not allowed to see my grandchild or my son.
Do I have legal rights to see him? Even though I have Bi Polar and BPD. My Daughter has Bi Polar and she lives in FL and has seen my Grandson more than me. I also see signs that my son might have bi polar. But never expressed that to him or anyone. My Son lives with his in laws now. He had to give up owning a home / his job / and had to go bankrupt because of moving back to our home state, because of his wife. Because the wife wanted to go home, and he lives with his in laws now.
Everyone said let it go, he will be back in my life. There is nothing I can do. But I suffer with BPD and Bi Polar, I can't handle abandoment very well. I miss my son terrible. I am in therapy every week. I take my meds faithfully and no one who knows me would ever guess I had mental issues.