i have done some reading but do not know if im right. i know there is a problem there are the mood swings and the irritation with everything for unexplained reasons and if you ask there is no answer or the answer is "i dont know thats honest" there is the piont where they indulge oneself in what they are doing and there is signs of alcoholism like drink to get drunk to have a good time not drink socialy.there is mental health issues in the family and there is similaities with the mental histoy from my knowledge i am very in love with this person and we have a daugther together i would like to get some help on how th get help i know its not accept in that family and looked down upon and the denial is the biggest thing to get past because there are times of no mood swings its just the way of thinkinking that goes on that is out of the ordinary......thanks