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Wednesday, November 11, 2009 Debbie asks

Q: bipolar and is on Oxycontin

My son bipolar and is on Oxycontin. I am so scared of what this is doing to him and those around him. He was on meds for bipolar and he was so different. His way of thinking and how he acted was wonderful. He is now not taking the meds but is still taking the Oxycontin. I think he snorts it. I am just beside myself and don't know what to do anymore. He is 38 years old with a 10 year old son, My Grandson. They have lived with my husband and I for 2 years. My grandson lives with us every other week. We did tell my son that he had a dead line and was to move out next April. But I just could not take his verbal abuse any longer, so I told him he needed to fine a place to live before April. Well he was gone the next day. My grandson was with his mother one night and with me the next night. My son is staying in a garage. The nasty text messages from him are tearing me apart. I could write a book about the pain he has put me though. I must add that what I have done for him was because of my grandson. He worships my son and I don't want him to hurt any more then he is after the divorce.

 

What I want to know is how being bipolar and taking Oxycontin can affect your health.  His father had a heart attack at 50 and this really scares me. I just heard that some guy upset him on the road and he pulled up to this person and walked up to their truck and kicked the door in. I really need help; I don't want to see him in Jail. Thanks

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11/11/09 2:39pm

Hi Debbie....Oxycontin is NOT a Bipolar medication.  It is an extremely strong and addicting pain medication.  You are right to not be around him at this time.  It's important for you and your family to take a stand with Tough Love.  Until he takes responsibility for his illness, he will never get better.  You've seen what medication can do for someone who is bipolar on a positive note, and you've seen what not being on it is like.

 

Try to not take anything he says to heart...easier said than done...I know!  First rule when it comes to having anyone Bipolar in your family...is to protect yourself first.  You can't help anyone until they want to be helped.....just ask anyone of us on here who is Bipolar!....Best of luck to you and your family..but most of all your Grandson, they are so precious.

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11/ 3/10 9:07pm

Hi Debbie ....my name is Debbie too :-)  My husband of 28 years has bi polar and we have learnt over the years management tools but 2 years ago due to a neck and shoulder injury he was prescribed oxycontin ...many procedures later and higher doses of oxycontin ....having to give up work etc.  He was a mess!  He was also prescribed other drugs to try over the 2 years for e.g. Cymbalta ....all of these combinations made his life and ours a living nightmare (all of these drugs including oxy can bring on mania).  It wasn't until a family friend who also happened to be a acupuncturist stepped in and offered my husband better pain management.  Once his pain was under control he was able to tell him just how bad the oxycontin was for him and that it would considerably shorten his life.  It's taken several months of weaning him off (which was very difficult and from what I read not everyone can do this without a doctors help)  I am happy to say I have my husband back.  I agree with the previous post ...it's so difficult not to take it personally but this medication on top of BP is a recipe for disaster and changes who they are.

 

I also know it really does need for them to see what is happening and want to get better for them to be able to be free if this horrid drug.  I know I can't help with that but if you ever just need someone to chat to feel free to email me.

 

Blessings

Deb

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5/ 8/11 6:20pm

Hi Debbie:

 

I have suspected for some time now that my husband is bipolar or has some type of ADHD, undiagnosed.  He got strung out on oxy for back pain, has gone to detox, takig Suboxone but seems exremely manic, much more so than anything I've seen before.  Have you evr heard of this happening?

 

Befuddled

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