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we trying very hard...he's the man in my situation, wich makes it easyer, we womans suffer more with feelings of rejection than mens do. You see, he have seen my bad side already, we stick together, but everytime i hear him saying that is difficult or i realize he's srtugling i am pushed into a pud of blue, and then i try to make it better by playing strong, tell him i dont need him, and that my life is easyer away from him. In a way that is thru, there is no one else in these world i care about more, caring makes me wanth to protect him from living with someone like me. But reason tells me that its up to him to choose, its a shame reason is not present in most of my acts... If you really love that person, dont let him get away without making it clear for you its your right to know, all thought he may lie to you in order to acomplish he's plan...its complicated...we do live innexisting problems to the limit... Can you write to him? talking and face to face is difficult in a crise, becouse we often just manage to cry and cry...and then we get frustrated becouse its all we can do...so we cry a litle more!!!