We met over a year ago and fell in love, got engaged. We were totaly happy for 6 months. Then all of a sudden she woke up one morning wanting to date other guys, I'm the glass is always full sort of guy, (ok it may be half water half air but still full.) for the last 5 months she has dated many guys and had bad experiences with all of them and keeps coming back to me to get her head straight and happy.
What can I do to help her?
I guess the big question is... does she want help?
I've never stayed in relationships very long and usually it was that waking up one morning and deciding I didn't want to be in the relationship. But the fact that she keeps coming back and that you take her back, is it possible that you have some co-dependent issues? Perhaps as you work on those and lay some good boundaries with her she will realize you aren't going to always be there to pick up her pieces and she will hopefully get off the fence.
A good book is Co-dependent no More by Melodie Beatty
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