I appreciate the people that responded to me the last time I ask a question, but I am still having problems, My 13 year old was diagnosed with bipolar in september and since then was hospitalized for 4 days. They put him on seroquel, and lamictal. Since that time I have had nothing but more trouble. He is failing school, won't listen at all, and smoking. When he was admitted to the hospital they found pot in his system. I was trying not to be so strict with him, but that backfired in my face. As I am typing this, he was suppose to be home at 8. It is now 9 and he won't answer his phone. I have contacted his psychiatrist, but she doesn't feel he is bad enough to be admitted again. I feel differently and am sick with fear. I am giving him 30 more minutes than calling the police. Does anyone have any advice.