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Thursday, June 12, 2008 jfree asks

Q: How do you know when to tell friends & partners you care about that you are bipolar?

I was diagnosed with Bipolar Disorder after a manic episode I had this past September. I had to leave the college I had just started attending and come back home. I have decided to stay at a local University, but still have yet to tell people the true reasons behind me coming back home. I feel very capable and have been successful in school and building new friendships since the diagnosis. I don't feel that it is necessary to tell them but know one day I will have to. I also feel that there is still a stigma associated with being bipolar which makes people apprehensive about being friends or get into a relationship with someone who has it. Any comments/past experiences?

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6/18/08 3:29am

I'm incapable of keeping a secret, so I told everybody.   I don't care - if they can't handle it, it's on them.  If someone is asking like, why I took the last year and a half off work and I don't want to get into it, I'll just say that I was dealing with a chronic illness.  Most people don't ask what... they don't really care to know. 

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6/13/08 7:36am

Hi, I think all fo us go through the who to tell, and who not to tell. I'm even still in that stage. I of course told my husband and children. I told my brother, bu the's not sure that I really have it, I told my sister, she is for sure I have it. I haven't told any of my other siblings, they just wouldn't understand, and there would be no benefit. I told my father, but he just kind of when dead to the fact. My mother died of commiting suicied at the age of 49, she was bipolar 1. Although my parents had been divorced for over 20 years at that time, I guess he didn't want to think about it. Plus he's one of these don't ever take meds kind of guys. Any way, every person, and situation is different. At first, I wanted all my different dictors to know about it. now I don't, but sometimes you have no choice, and when they read the meds your on, they'll guess it any way. So, see what works best for you, and tell the ones whom are closest to you, that will give you the most support. Take care.

                                           DC.

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By jfree— Last Modified: 12/26/10, First Published: 06/12/08