We met a year ago and discovered we had incredible chemistry together. We communicate well, we are physically passionate and we laugh a lot. He told me early on that he is bipolar but medicated. He actually works in the medical field, is extremely bright and involved. We speak often and try to get together at least once a week. As time has gone on I have come to doubt his sincerity. When we're together we are very connected but when apart, it feels as though I don't enter his head, he is off-hand and forgetful. He says all the right things but his actions leave me wanting and I get very hurt. I have tried pointing this out and he says that he can only focus on what he is doing at the time. I love this man deeply. I suppose what am I questioning is how much of this is him, how much of it is the bipolar? I will love him, I'll support him, but if this is not related to his condition then I will leave. I know that you don't have a crystal ball to look into our relationship, but do these seem common grievances of people involved with bipolar men?