My wife left she had too much, how can I get her back?

speaking as someone who was in your situation, but the roles were reversed, get help with your addiction first..try cognitive behavior therapy, just going to your doc is not enough, they dont have the time to "work" with you, they basically (talking about pdocs) are trying to tweak your meds, and keep you stable, but you need behavior therapy to unlearn these behaviors, you have to find your wise mind, and not just your emotional mind..you have to learn to how to act and behave, not only reacting to your emotions, try cbt, dbt, and if these options are not open to you, try finding a support group. i hope that helps, the dbt/cbt really helped me, i still feel the rage, i just know that is a feeling that i am in control of, and i use my wise mind to deal with the situation.iam  truly sorry about your wife, work on you, show her your changing..give her something tangible, no promises, actions. good luck.,

  we all have to find a way to like ourselves, before anyone else

 can like us.  Pills can only do so much. They probably are helping

 but you need more, like a social worker, or support group.

    to find ways to not explode .  Do this for yourself, not just

 for her.  Before youre ready to explode , pick up the phone,

   and call a toll free mental health line and tell them how you

 feel and why.   yell at them , instead of someone else.

       by the time you call back, you ll get a different worker

 anyways.  when you feel more stable,  write your wife a letter,

    being honest about everything, once every few weeks. this

 will help you.    and by all means, make sure ya go to

 gamblers anonymous,  noone else wil understand about your

 gambling.