Traci, your story posts have been not only a story about breast cancer and the issues is causes in our lives, but it is also one about the necessity of being positive and pushing toward our life goals. i applaude your attempt at surrogacy. but you and your husband have kept alive the dream of having a child of your own, and look at where you are now. with each child you are blessed with along this road you are getting closer to realizing your vision of a family will come true. i believe we make our lives happen in many ways with hopes, dreams, positive thinking and endurance. contratulations on your new little angel. mimi