One Week After Surgery

You WILL get through this. It's definitely a huge shock; it takes some getting used to. But with the treatment they have these days, it's amazing what they can do. Best of luck with the baby - I have a friend who went through the same thing, pregnant when she was diagnosed, and now, 3 years later, she has 2 great kids! Good luck - PJH

I know it's a lot to endure.  And we as Mom's and Wives jump to our families first and wonder how will they make do?  This is normal.  I spent the first few weeks after my diagnosis crying about the motherless Christmases my children would have to spend. But I'm so happy to be able to tell you that after a right breast mastectomy in March '07 and 4 rounds of AC chemo in summer '07 I am happy and whole again (minus the boob) and already stashing away stocking stuffers for this year. 

There is so much reason for hope for you MD.  People do get through this and come out stronger on the other end.  My heart is with you on this journey.  Take good care.

Love, Laurie

Hi MD,

I wanted to share that I am thinking of you and praying for you.  My sister in law's sister in law (get that?) just delivered a very healthy and happy baby girl after facing exactly the same thing you are going through.  there is nothing easy about Breast Cancer and certainly not when coupled with pregnancy.  You have every right to be overwhelmed right now!  I truly believe that knowledge is power so learn everything you can in order to be an advocate for yourself and your baby!  Make sure you are seeing a high risk pregnancy specialist as well. 

Remember that you can still have all your reconstruction etc when the baby is born.  that choice has not been completely taken away from you! 

Remember, Life is worth Fighting for and now you are fighting for two!!

Sherree

I was just recently diagnosed for the 2nd time in 3 years with breast cancer, same pesky breast.  I am 2 weeks away from bilateral mastectomies, which I decided to do voluntarily, (well at least one of them was my decision, the other one is going down with ship).  I made my decision based on the information the doctors gave me and with the help of my friends and family.  

I believe in God and believe that he has wonderful things in store for you.   Your baby is a blessing for sure.  I wish you all the love and health in the world.  

God Bless you and your family.

Danielle