Hi,
I am a newly diagnosed breast cancer patient. I opted for a double mastectomy with DIEP reconstruction. That was 2 weeks ago and I'm still trying to get my strength back. I really underestimated how much the 9-hour surgery would knock me down!
The good news is my tumor was 1.7cm, node negative, estrogen receptor positive and today I got my Oncogene Dx score which is 12! All really good news. I see the oncologist next week, but my surgeon anticipates he will only recommend hormone therapy.
I'm 48 and had already started the perimenopause stuff! Since surgery my hot flashes seem to be more frequent as well as bad mood swings. I'm thinking I need an antidepressant, especially given that the hormone therapy is likely to make things worse. Any suggestions? My husband, family don't get my mood swings......thinking I should be ecstatic with such good tumor results. Maybe this is short-lived, I don't know?


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Hi - Good news is relative - yes, it's great news about your tumor size, lack of spread to nodes, and Oncotype score - but heck, you still have a life-threatening disease, and you're still trying to wrap your head and heart around that... Just two weeks after a double mastectomy and reconstruction, I'm not at all surprised you're feeling as you do! Time heals, it really does; but you and your family need to allow you lots of time time to heal, physically and emotionally. It won't happen in a week or two, or even a month or two; it'll take awhile.
Ask your doctor about antidepressants; many women find that a low-dose mood-lightener helps them get through the initial throes of menopause. Be advised, though, if your doctor prescribes tamoxifen (rather than Arimidex, or some other aromastase inhibitor), that many antidepressants can work against tamoxifen, making it somewhat ineffective. But cross that bridge when you get to it - if/when you're prescribed tamoxifen.
Take it one day at a time. Eventually, you WILL feel better. And stay in touch here, OK? We can help. Best wishes - PJH
Thanks for your reply! I thought I was so much more prepared for this than I was, but my strength is returning and each day is a little easier. I have decided to ask my doc for an antidepressant, it may not help but it certainly can't hurt! I have a decent knowledge of cancer as I teach Pathophysioplogy at the local university and I have read a ton since my diagnosis. The treatment for breast cancer seems to be pretty standard based on type, stage, etc. Do you think there is value in going to a major medical center like MD Anderson for medical oncology management or do you think treatment is so standardized now that local oncologists are going to be about the same?
Studies show that the real value of Comprehensive Cancer Centers is 1) making sure the diagnosis is right; smaller cancer treatment facilities often don't come up with the 100% correct diagnosis, and thus the treatment might not be as effective as possible; and 2) for rare or complicated cancers. So if you feel quite sure that your diagnosis is right (and it sounds like it's uncomplicated enough that it is), then the management/treatment is probably just as well handled at a smaller facility. Good luck - PJH